How satisfied are you with your life?
I was always looking for something to be satisfied with.
Such as,
- Having a lot of friends.
- Having a girlfriend who does not pretend to be a lonely person.
- Earning a lot of money.
- A luxury car.
- Having some events with famous people, etc.
But, I thought I couldn’t be satisfied with whatever I have. The expression “satisfaction” may sound a little bit strange.
However, I had learned something from ‘William Ury’s book’ that I was reading a bit ago. So I decided to talk about it.
How to be happy is changing your perspective.
After all, the best and worst situations are depending on from person to person’s minds.
How about this situation with your mind below?
Normally, People think this way. If you won the lottery one million dollars, It’s a very lucky situation that you think. On the other hand, If you lose all your money then you will feel very unsatisfied in life.
Is it right in general?
Basically, the standard of unhappiness value and unsatisfaction is depending on your perspective by human society values.
I truly think that. With another examples,
Married people are happy. But People who aren’t married yet are not happy. I thought so like that before.
If the man has a lot of friends are having a party every day. That looks like a cool guy, very valuable. On the other hand, the man who doesn’t have a friend and a wife. That is like looking like a loser from all the information in our society.
I mean that there is a society making me think so. It is 100 % for sure related.
Lately, Living in our society. It is giving us so much information. Television, social networks, and the Internet are making our minds attacked by a disease. Such as anxiety, fear, and anger. It makes complicated things that make us happy. I also felt that the right brain. With the five senses, the power might be weakened.
Sometimes, I feel worried about tomorrow, future . It is not focused on how to live now.
In this condition under the circumstances. I cannot really enjoy the inspiration of the music or the vibe of the scenery.
Well, surely we need money. And a job is important too when thinking about our future goals. Because all that we have bills for everything to live. For rent, gas, food, etc.
Maybe you completely don’t care about money. Or a job for the future. You will probably lose a job first. And then the money is all gone. After that, the wife and kids leave you. And lose your motivation to live your life.
Eventually, you’re thinking of choosing life, Death or alive.
Or, You can be chosen forever alone until you die.
However, the standard value by itself depends on the person.
Values differ depending on where you were born. And the environment. But the best thing is knowing other perspectives.
I’m glad to learn different life values in the United States now. I am feeling cultivated new in my perspective. Because If I didn’t leave my country, I would never know others’ perspectives. To how they live their life with their values.
There are many more common senses in the world. But even those common senses are not for all. I realized that it is very important to have my perspective. With not the social value.
Believe it.
And be a person who is a man of principle.
I feel that it is the most necessary thing in our society now.
Having your own perspective. It means not to be a selfish person. We need to think about our value ourselves. And our thoughts first.
To consider others’ thoughts too. It can take good care of yourself. At the same time love others. How to live better with it is not judging the values on the other person. And either not living in the values of others.
Please help yourself first too. And not just help others, you need to take care of yourself too. I think that is about living from your perspective. And to create a strong mind by believing in yourself.
Better life comes with don’t care of the social values.
Focus on you now.
No Job, No wife, No money, No house, No car. So, then I am an unhappy person. That those are not necessary thoughts.
You’re not a person who is not loved by anyone because you cannot get married, that is not true.
Life-changing with your perspective.
Why do they feel anxiety? It’s because we’re always looking for something.
Some exciting information about our needs. They keep messing up our brain. And we think about what we are missing right now. And they want us to buy products, spending more money.
Because the brain makes us think so, every time I read a book, I get some inspiration.
Happiness is decided by ourselves.
We can change that at any time, whatever the circumstances we are, it’s all up to us.
Life is very benevolent.
It doesn’t have to feel satisfying. Because it is never the end what if we have or don’t have with any circumstances. Just always focus on yourself. Calm down by thinking about things deeply.
I thought about everything that it doesn’t matter how much money I have. Also about having a lot of friends or not. I just need to live in peace and calm from my own perspective.
How satisfied are you?
That question is what my friends asked me before. I remember that we were talking about happiness levels. As I said, the evaluation of myself was very strict and low. It was like I thought I answered about 30% with my satisfaction in my life.
At the time, my thoughts were an evaluation of social values. It must have been a happiness level of social standards.
But It didn’t matter by now. Because I realized that I was doing something meaningless to think of myself as unhappy.
It depends on my thoughts. Now we can be happy from this moment.
It doesn’t matter who we are. We are the one and only. Well now, I am sitting on the couch and the smell of coffee makes me feel so good.
Somehow my favorite music is flowing from behind my head at the same time. It’s a very luxurious time. To use your five senses to enrich your life.
Enjoy, Thank your reading.
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